Our people are hurting and they are scared. Not everyone and not all of the time, but clergy in the groups I facilitate frequently tell me that congregants are looking for reassurance – that spaces are safe, that we are protected, that our children will navigate this challenging time without scars. They send out statements full of compassion and reassurance. They are working hard to make us feel okay.

But I know that fear is an early warning system that doesn’t dissipate simply because you tell me I am okay. Fear, like pain, is our brain’s alert that action may be required. Neither should........

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