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The Strange Post-Breakup Habit Most Adults Won’t Admit They Have

A new survey found many adults still picture an ex reacting to their posts, achievements, and major life decisions.

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If you’ve ever gone through a breakup, you likely know how…unhinged heartbreak can make you. For example, I’m ashamed to admit that I once looked up my ex on Spotify just to see what he was listening to, as it’s the only way I felt close to him post-split. And don’t get me started on the Instagram stories I’d post, just hoping he would see how much I was “thriving” without him.

My 20s offered quite the learning experience.

Thankfully, according to a recent survey by the Hint App, most adults (yes, adults) still imagine an ex watching their life post-breakup. In fact, 74% have imagined what an ex would think about a major life decision, while 68% have pictured a former partner’s reaction to a personal achievement.

What’s more, 59% have shared something online, hoping their ex might eventually see it, while 52% say........

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