Pandora’s lunchbox. That’s how I’d describe the process of organising, preparing and packing school lunches because the reality is, it is notoriously challenging, a bane of so many parents’ existence and a lot more difficult than it should be.

Even as my eldest enters her final year of primary school, the very thought of lunchboxes makes me want to crawl into a hole. If only a crew of lunch fairies magically appeared each night and with a wave of a 5-star health-rated, school approved wand, put together an Insta-worthy school lunch.

Forget fancy: experts recommend taking it back to basics when it comes to your child’s school lunch. Credit: iStock

Most experts though, say that lunchboxes don’t have to be like this.

“A nutritious lunchbox is crucial, but it’s equally important to ensure it includes foods that your kids will enjoy and are simple to prepare and consume,” says Anna Broughton, accredited practising dietitian from Nutrition Australia.

Unlike the processed, wrapper-heavy snacks of the ’90s (hello, Roll-ups, Dunkaroos and LeSnacks) in 2024, there is an array of external input about what should make up your child’s diet. Government-supplied healthy school lunch guides and strongly worded “allowable foods” policies from schools are just a few. Guidelines range from stipulations solely around nuts or high-allergy food types as a form of health and safety, to detailed specifications around which food groups should be represented in your child’s lunchbox and whether or not they can have wrappers or must be “nude.”

While this advice predominantly comes from a good place, some of it can cause unwanted and unneeded pressure, adding further tasks to a parent’s already extensive to-do list.

And then there’s the question of which type of lunchbox to purchase? Because of course, you want to ensure your child is on the right side of lunchbox style. So, what is it? An insulated bag? Bento box? A combination? A specific brand? And this, not even my trend-obsessed, in-the-know, daughter can give me a direct answer to, so what hope do I have?

Worse than this though, is the fear of getting the lunchbox “wrong” and – gasp – allowing an unapproved lunchbox item onto the school grounds.

Lunch shaming letters sent home from teachers due to an unapproved item making an appearance have become a regular talking point as disgruntled parents’ increasingly share their “crime” to social media. And in every instance, for these parents who are doing the best they can, this doesn’t sit well. Nor should it.