Christmas is quietly wrecking young people’s finances - and it’s not their fault
By Juliette Savage
Every year, as the fairy lights go up, so do the expectations.
For young people—especially young parents juggling childcare costs, rising rent, and shrinking budgets—Christmas isn’t a season of joy. It’s a season of judgement.
You don’t have to look far to see the strain. Recently on Facebook, a young mum shared her Amazon wish list in a community group, asking for help to buy her children gifts so they “wouldn’t be disappointed.”
It wasn’t a plea for luxury—it was an admission of just how punishing December has become. The financial pressure extends far beyond presents under the tree.
Social media has turned Christmas into a month-long performance. We’re not just buying gifts—we’re buying proof that we’re doing Christmas “right”:
This curated Christmas isn’t simply expensive—it’s exhausting. It tells young families, pensioners, and........





















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