Welcome to The i Paper’s new opinion series, My Relationship Fix, in which our writers offer real-life solutions to relationship problems.

• I was jealous of my best friend for 20 years – the point-scoring was exhausting
• The one change I made to keep my marriage alive after kids
• I can’t tell my male friends I love them – so I send them memes instead

You know those adverts on TV where the man is throwing things into a sizzling pan with wild abandon? Music jauntily plays while he’s lobbing in herbs and spices into the mix with........

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