menu_open Columnists
We use cookies to provide some features and experiences in QOSHE

More information  .  Close

Kids Can't Seem To Stop Whining? Therapists Say This Is The Best Way To Respond

16 0
02.07.2026

Kids Can't Seem To Stop Whining? Therapists Say This Is The Best Way To Respond

If the constant complaining is grinding you down, here's what therapists advise.

Parents editor at HuffPost UK

There comes a point in every parent’s life when their sprogs discover the art of whining – and boy, can it grate.

While the odd whine is fine (who doesn’t need a good moan now and then?), when whining becomes the default, or children seem to constantly complain, it can be exhausting – especially when you’re trying to work, look after them, juggle endless amounts of life admin (yours and theirs), and everything else in between.

Such is the case for one parent of two young girls aged six and nine, who shared that their children’s complaints are “constant” – and it’s starting to really get to them.

“I reached the point that when I am working alone from home and I hear the main door opening (meaning they are back) I pre-stress and I start to have palpitations,” said the parent on Reddit’s r/Parenting forum. “It should not be like this.”

Abigail Finnegan, a psychotherapist and member of Counselling Directory, said: “For many of us who have worked in the field of child........

© HuffPost