There is a peculiar loneliness that shows up around the age of 50. Not the dramatic loneliness of youth — the kind that is loud and restless. This one is subtle. It slips into the gaps of a well-lived life.

Your children are older, maybe living elsewhere. Your parents may no longer be around. Your colleagues have become acquaintances. Your friends — the ones who once defined your world — now meet you twice a year with a fixed agenda and a fixed duration.

Nothing is technically wrong. Yet something feels missing.

We grew up in a world where community was built in. Neighbourhoods, extended families, shared routines. Over time, ambition made everything individual. We became independent, efficient, self-sufficient… but also, slowly, emotionally undernourished.

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This phase of life reveals that gap.

Over the last few years, I’ve noticed that people in their 50s and 60s aren’t lonely because they lack people. They’re lonely because they lack connection that feels effortless — the kind where you can show up as you are, without performance.

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And here’s the interesting part:

Community at this age doesn’t form automatically. You have to build it intentionally.

A walking group. A reading circle. A weekly breakfast with two old school friends. A volunteering community. These aren’t “activities.” They are emotional anchors.

And they matter more now than ever.

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I’ve seen this in my own walking journey. I often walk alone, but I am........

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