Your only chance of getting—and keeping—the partner you most want to have is to be the partner you most want to be. That sounds simple enough. But the hard part is figuring out what kind of partner you most want to be. Here are some questions that might help.

If you chose the first part of any of the above questions, you’re dragging a chain of resentment through life that keeps you from becoming the person, parent, and intimate partner you most want to be. If resentment is chronic, help........

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