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The Relationship Mistake That’s Keeping You from True Love

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04.10.2024

Regarding relationships, we often have a picture of what true love should look like. Whether it's from movies, social media, or romantic stories we’ve grown up with, we believe there is a perfect person out there who will complete us in every way. The problem is that this vision of perfection is exactly what could be holding you back from finding the deep, meaningful connection you desire.

Unrealistic expectations set us up for failure. No one is perfect in real life—not you, your partner, or the relationship itself. But many people still believe that love should be easy and flawless. When things get tough or their partner doesn’t live up to this idealized version of who they “should” be, disappointment sets in. This cycle leads to frustration, resentment, and sometimes even the end of what could have been a truly fulfilling relationship.

Take the example of Erica and Jackson. Erica entered the relationship with the expectation that Jackson would be her rock, always knowing how to support her in every emotional moment. When he failed to read her mind or didn't respond in precisely the way she wanted during stressful times, Erica began to think Jackson wasn’t “the one.” She felt let down by his perceived flaws and started........

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