Managing an entitled adult child can be a challenging and emotionally exhausting experience for parents. Whether it’s endless requests for financial support, special treatment, or refusing to take responsibility for their actions, these situations can quickly spiral into resentment and strain the entire family dynamic. But there is hope—by implementing clear boundaries, fostering mutual respect, and teaching accountability, you can reclaim control of your relationship and help guide your child toward maturity.

I highlight three proven strategies with my parent-coaching clients to manage their entitled adult children, along with real-world examples highlighting these action tactics.

Setting firm boundaries is one of the most effective tools for dealing with an entitled adult child. Often, entitlement grows from a lack of limitations, where the parent repeatedly gives in to demands or excuses for bad behavior. By clearly defining what is acceptable and what isn’t, you’re protecting your well-being and teaching your child an invaluable lesson in respect.

Example: Catherine's son, Javier, was 25 and still living at home despite being capable of moving out. He refused to contribute to household chores, constantly demanded money, and had no plans to find a stable job. Catherine bent backward to meet Javier's requests, feeling disrespected and emotionally drained. She finally........

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