As we wend our way from toddlerhood to older adulthood, we have a desire to be useful. It's a fundamental aspect of human experience that evolves as we traverse different stages of life. From toddler years, when little ones eagerly mimic their parents in an effort to be helpful, to the later years, when adults find fulfillment in providing for their families or contributing to their communities, the need to feel useful runs deep.

Toddlers are not merely playing make-believe when they attempt to assist parents with chores or activities; they seek validation and purpose through usefulness. The drive to feel useful is vital for their development, fostering confidence and autonomy as they grow. During adolescence, the urge for usefulness can surface through academic accomplishments or extracurricular activities, indicating their adolescent's value........

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