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Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d

Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d

Psychology Today

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When Relationship Peace Requires Self-Betrayal

When Relationship Peace Requires Self-Betrayal

How to reclaim your sense of self in difficult relationships.

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Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d

When Anxiety Turns Us Into Control Freaks

How our urge to fix, help, and organize is really about soothing ourselves

24.04.2026 90

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Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d

Why Focusing on Yourself Benefits Your Relationships

How doing the inner work transforms the way you love.

26.03.2026 100

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Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d

Modern Parenting Feels Like Too Much

Breaking the cycle of burnout in a world that demands everything.

18.03.2026 100

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Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d

When the Family Helper Needs Help

The hidden struggles of overfunctioners and what can be done about it.

02.03.2026 100

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Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d

Are Relationships Worth the Risk of Being Hurt?

26.08.2025 70

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Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d

Raising Leaders, Not Followers

30.07.2025 70

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Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d

When Positive Thinking Turns Into Avoidance

22.07.2025 60

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Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d

People-Pleasing in a Polarized Society

25.06.2025 80

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Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d

Do You Really Have to Lose Yourself to Love Someone?

17.06.2025 100

Psychology Today

Ilene Strauss Cohen Ph.d