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Well, I managed to stick my big dumb old white guy foot in it again. An article in “The Atlantic” entitled “The Growing Gender Divide, Three...
I’m not a hoarder. I am a collector and an archivist. There’s a difference. I collect and archive reel-to-reel tapes, cassettes, vinyl. I have a...
Joan and I recently got another COVID vaccine shot. ‘Why?’ you might ask. The bad news, as I’ve previously stated and that has been certified by...
They didn’t pick up the trash Tuesday morning. I thought that was odd and then I remembered it was Election Day. Joan and I had voted on Oct. 26....
I recently phone banked ahead of the Oct. 15 early voting in Georgia. As usual with every time I’ve done this, I was surprised by the result. The...
Joan and I have been lucky enough to find many great doctors to tend to our various ailments, which only get more pronounced as we age. One of the...
Nobody wants to walk through this world uninformed. We all want to gain as much knowledge as we can so we can navigate the storms of life...
I was thinking the other day about verbal expressions my family used that I don’t hear a lot anymore. For example: “scooch.” In my family of...
I’m not a “my country right or wrong” kind of guy. I’m more of a “my country right AND wrong.” There is so much that I love about America...
Let’s talk about the four two family structures in the room. On July 25, the same day Joan went into hospital for a four-day stay, work began on the...
After spending an evening talking to some new friends, I have decided that I erred in my previous assertion that some of us were not on “the sexual...
I had just returned from a disastrous solo open mic set when cries from Joan sent us rushing to our nearest hospital. During her four-day stay, she...
A person shows up at my church every summer who used to attend before returning to their home in Jamaica. Now, they visit us and play tambourine...
It was all going so well! Joan and I had participated in an Open Mic at West Cork Union Hall, along with our friends Dennis, Hiroko, Andy, Nanci and...
When, in 1964, I began to play music and seriously listen to it as a musician, most of the artists I admired were male. There were the Beatles, The...
I hate to say I told you so, but, I did. Some columns ago, I predicted that Joe Biden would drop out of the race due to an unspecified illness. I...
Old Guy at the Club: Ageism in America He was a 20-year-old kid. It doesn’t matter whether he was a Republican, a Democrat, an Independent, whether...
Watching the HBO series “The Sympathizer” is a very odd experience. Beautifully crafted with excellence in every department, it reveals a central...
Our kitchen clock died, and not all at once. It began to slow down, first 10 minutes, then 30, then finally an entire hour. It was living on New...
I was standing at the entrance to Costco one recent Saturday morning. Fifteen people streamed into the front lobby before me. Not a one uttered the...
Ugh. I have become a very cranky old guy and I apologize. But I want to discuss two things that confuse me. I don’t mean the back-in parking thing...
I’ve been duped, and I don’t like it.For years, some of us have been telling the rest of us that critical race theory was only taught in law...
“Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be, the last of life, for which the first was made.” - Robert Browning John Lennon turned this quote...
Joan and I recently participated in an acoustic jam at Richmondtown Library, run by our friend Caroline. We’d played there before as part of the...
Ghosts… the stuff of fantasy/horror fiction dating back to Poe and the earliest campfire ghost stories. And TV shows. There was “Dead Like Me”...
The eclipse. An astrological event one part awe, one part terror of permanent retinal damage. My friend Glenn had the best advice. I watched it on TV....
Joan and I had dinner with our friends Al, Carl and Linda recently. Al and Carl had been members of our band Allergic To B’s before Joan and I...
“Everything is copy.” - Nora Ephron Recently quoted by Taylor Swift, this idea from the American writer Nora Ephron stopped me for a moment to...
It started last year, when I was diagnosed with Barrett’s Esophagus, a pre-cancerous disease if left untreated. It killed my friend Phil. Then, my...
The meme reads as follows: “Not every woman who is nice to you is flirting with you. De-sexualize kindness.”Well, sure. When a man is kind to me,...
Boomers get blamed for a lot of stuff that has gone wrong over the past few decades. I often feel compelled to defend my generation. We used to be the...
WHAT? I had to re-read the email from MoveForward a couple of times to make sure I was reading it right. It was asking me to sign a petition to...
Joan has been telling me for a long time that I have a hearing loss. She got hearing aids at Costco about two years ago and suggested I have a hearing...
I’m getting a bit fed up with all the talk about the ages of the current front runner nominees for president. It used to be that you wanted a more...
I learned so much doing the recent Sea View Playwrights Theatre production of “Bill W. And Dr. Bob”, written by Samuel Shem and Janet Surrey about...
I am not the biggest Taylor Swift fan in the room. I saw her special about the music she recorded with two musicians during the pandemic and was...
The meme began: “We think we want sex. It’s intimacy we want.” It went on to define intimacy as being touched, admired, looked at, smiled at. In...
It’s not good news. People are experiencing more bouts with COVID and each one leaves your immune system weaker and susceptible to a whole range of...
It doesn’t really surprise me that two of the greatest, most cherished monster movies came from the minds of two gay men: James Whale...
What exactly is a “Christian nationalist”? I asked Google. It said: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian_nationalism The...
My disdain for the Belt Parkway is well-documented. This article will extend that documentation. During the month of November, while we were caring...
I’m getting sick and tired of folks from all sides taking swipes at public education. I taught special education (mostly middle school) for 28 years...
I didn’t finish the story about surviving COVID. Four days after I was clear of it, Joan tested positive. This followed a round of trying to get her...