Understanding Divorce: Causes, Consequences, and New Beginnings
By: Khulood Yaqoob
Divorce is both a legal process and an emotional journey—the dissolution of a marital union. While often painful, it can also represent a necessary path away from a toxic environment and toward personal peace.
A happy, healthy marriage requires dedication from both partners. When commitment wavers—even from one spouse—the relationship can begin to unravel. Infidelity, for instance, breaks a fundamental vow of faithfulness and is deeply difficult to overcome. Similarly, a breakdown in communication is one of the strongest predictors of divorce, often leading to constant conflict and resentment.
Financial strain also tests marital bonds, whether through significant debt, disagreements over spending, or insecurity about necessities. Moreover, unmet expectations—shaped by personal experiences and societal influences—can create disappointment and disconnect.
At the core of these challenges lies the issue of trust. Trust is the bedrock of any strong relationship, and its absence—whether due to betrayal, insecurity, or repeated misunderstandings—can fracture the foundation of a marriage.
The consequences of divorce extend beyond the couple, especially when children are involved. It can leave children........





















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