Our culture presents a confusing array of messages about bodies, eating, and health. We see media images that promote unrealistic (and generally unreal) bodies, sensationalized news stories about “health,” and an ongoing push for perfection. This “normative discontent” reflects rampant weightism and lookism in our world. Body negativity has been a long-standing issue for many decades, but today’s culture can feel even more extreme because of often misguided social media messages and heavily edited images.

Culture isn’t the only thing that triggers negative body image and disordered eating or exercise dysfunction; however, it is a significant factor. Sonya Renee Taylor, author of The Body Is Not an Apology, argues that no one is born with body shame; it is a learned behavior and an "indoctrination" from the world around us. Sadly, body terrorism is the native language for many.

Instead of loathing our bodies and assuming we need more willpower, let’s shift our perspective to building more skillpower. We need more balanced information to challenge unrealistic ideals, reduce the glorification of flawlessness, and promote self-respect. Most........

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