What if I don’t really like my elder?

Oh boy, this one is tough.

Any person may refuse help. They may be irresponsible about their medications and blow off their appointments. They may try to sabotage the help you give another loved one for whatever convoluted reasons. They may not grasp reality. It sounds absurd, but anything can happen. And it does.

I’m not talking about that stuff. I’m talking about what to do if you don’t actually like your person—maybe you love them, maybe you don’t, but you definitely don’t........

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