Why “Good” or “Bad” Outcomes Aren’t Always What They Seem
A farmer had a stallion. He entered into a competition at the local fair, and his stallion won first prize. The villagers congratulated him: “Oh, this is so good for you!” He replied: “We’ll see.”
Because the stallion had won first prize, it was seen as more valuable and so thieves came and stole the stallion. The villagers said, “Oh, this is so sad for you!” The farmer replied, “We’ll see.”
The farmer’s horse ran away from the thieves, bringing seven wild horses with it. The villagers said, “Oh, how wonderful for you!” The farmer replied, “We’ll see.”
The following day, the farmer’s son attempted to break in one of the wild horses. In the process, he was thrown off and broke his leg. The villagers said, “Oh, this is so terrible for you!” The farmer replied, “We’ll see.”
Soon after, conscription officers came to the village to recruit young men into the army. Seeing the farmer’s son with a broken leg, they let him stay in the village. The villagers said, “Oh, how fortunate for you!” The farmer replied, “We’ll see.”
Life is full of unexpected challenges and setbacks. When faced with these........
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