“That’s mine.” “She took my toy.” “He keeps bothering me.” These common moments of discord are a normal occurrence in families with more than one child.

While conflict is a normal and even a healthy part of all relationships, rivalry is not. Rivalry occurs when individuals begin vying for supremacy or dominance within the same domain. Sibling rivalry arises when siblings become competitors within the family dynamic.

Sibling rivalries can be filled with animosity and long-term disconnect. This can and should be avoided. Conflict is useful for all human beings. Conflict allows humans to progress in communicating their needs and thoughts as well as listening to the needs of others. The goal should not be focused on children never having a disagreement........

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