It's Normal For Toddlers To Reject One Parent – But It Still Totally Sucks
It's Normal For Toddlers To Reject One Parent – But It Still Totally Sucks
If you’re ‘the shunned one’, you might find your toddler doesn’t want you to hug or touch them, or even read to or play with them anymore.
Parents editor at HuffPost UK
Lots of toddlers seem to go through a phase where they reject one of their parents – and oh boy can it hurt.
Taking to Reddit, one mum going through it said her two-year-old only wanted her dad. “I know this is ‘normal toddler behaviour’ and that kids go through stages like this, but it’s been going on for a few months now and it’s starting to really get to me,” said the parent.
“Today I was outside with her and she got hurt. She was fine, but then she acted mad at me and wouldn’t let me comfort her – just wanted dad. It crushed me. I try so hard to be present and loving, but right now it feels like I’m not the parent she wants.”
As children try to exert as much independence as possible – moving about unaided, eating their own dinner and playing alone – they might start to lean towards one parent (and away from the other).
If you’re ‘the shunned one’, you might find your toddler doesn’t want you to hug or........
