Every December, there’s a familiar pressure on parents to create a “magical” Christmas for their children: the perfect presents, photos, the packed schedule of visits, lights, Santa trips and traditions.

But while Christmas is often imagined as magical for toddlers, it can also bring a lot of change and stimulation all at once.

Working day to day with babies and toddlers at Hopscotch Children’s Nurseries, I notice a familiar pattern as Christmas approaches. Children who are usually very settled often become more emotional or clingy, and separations at drop-off may feel harder than usual.

You might see more big feelings, more tears, or a need for extra reassurance.

Then, when January arrives, some parents return feeling worn out – and a little puzzled about why everything felt so tricky.

The truth is that this is a very normal response to a busy, exciting and change-filled time of year for young children.

The reality is that toddlers don’t experience Christmas as a single joyful event from start to finish. Instead, they experience it in lots of small moments – some of which are disruptive.

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