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I lost my baby daughter, but God’s love can help us past grief this Christmas

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Pastor Jesse Bradley of Grace Community Church in Washington state says Christmas points us to Jesus — the greatest gift — and the Advent themes of hope, peace, joy and love. As we celebrate, we remember nothing can separate us from God’s love.

For many, Christmas is a time of celebration, laughter and loved ones gathering. But for others, it magnifies the grief of what could be and awakens memories we wish we could forget. A season that promises peace can instead expose our deepest pain. 

Before founding Auntie Anne’s, I walked through a season of darkness that I never thought I would escape. The loss of my 19-month-old daughter Angie created a hole in my heart that made it seem as though joy would always be out of reach. 

The darkness of grief can make it seem like all hope is lost. I kept wondering when, or if, I could ever piece myself back together. Following my daughter’s death, I sought help from our pastor but was taken advantage of and abused for seven years. My grief led me down a path of shame I thought there was no coming back from. I found myself all alone in a world of secrets and darkness. 

AT CHRISTMAS, GOD FULFILLS HIS PURPOSE — AND GIVES US OURS

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