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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Stop the false hope this year

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: New Year’s Resolutions: Five simple steps

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Keep it simple this holiday season

22.12.2024 1

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Dr. Randy Cale’s terrific parenting: The art of holding our opinions lightly …

15.12.2024 3

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: The need to be right!

08.12.2024 5

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terriffic Parenting: Misery loves company

Indeed, you have heard this saying before. It’s been around for centuries and remains as accurate today as it was for Sophocles in ancient Greece....

23.11.2024 6

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Anger brings more anger. Gratitude produces more gratitude

Our minds are like telescopic lenses, and the more we focus on something, the larger it becomes.As children, we begin with a starter telescope, which...

17.11.2024 5

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: He just makes me so mad! It’s his/her fault I am miserable!

Whether adults, young siblings or older teens, you may often hear something like this when someone is upset, “It’s YOUR fault that I am angry. You...

10.11.2024 6

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Stop teaching kids to fight for their limitations?

More and more often, I find families reaching out for help because children or teens are stuck in a pattern of self-doubt, self-denigration and...

27.10.2024 5

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Change your life a bit … with this one idea

Yes, a bold claim. But indulge me a few moments.Personally, my to do list inevitably grows larger than hours in my day. I see that a meaningful,...

06.10.2024 5

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Frustration-free morning secrets

After I introduced some simple concepts on starting school, one mom sent me an email with this opening line: “Dr Cale, how do I get control of the...

21.09.2024 20

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Back to school; Back on track: Get the fundamentals right … right now!

As the school buses start to crank their engines, parents feel one of two things about their kids’ return to school: a big sigh of relief or a bit...

08.09.2024 4

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Mastering momentum for life change

We are a culture seeking immediate gratification. This we know.And our tendency to seek those instant or rapid changes is understandable. When we have...

01.09.2024 3

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terriffic Parenting: Which end of the life-stick?

Imagine life boiled down to a straightforward decision that we have the power to influence moment by moment. And, even though we have the power to...

17.08.2024 4

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terriffic Parenting: What is Neurofeedback, and why now?

Because I have been working as a psychologist for many years and have a history of offering therapy, I often get asked, Dr. Cale, why Neurofeedback...

03.08.2024 3

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Prickly, sensitive teens: Practical ways to connect

Many parents struggle with the attitude and ‘back-talk’ that comes with prickly teens. While some of us are spared from such challenges, many...

28.07.2024 6

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Want your son living in your basement (for an extra 20 years)?

No? Well, the statistics are moving in that direction. More young adults are living at home in their twenties, while unable to find the ‘right’...

14.07.2024 8

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Simple strategies for a great summer

School is ending, and for most, plans are in place for a good amount of summer fun. Yet, too often good times are filled with excessive whining,...

07.07.2024 3

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Why vs How: Lessons for fulfillment

Many years ago, I heard the saying: You have a choice: You can live life studying the roots…or enjoy the fruits. But you can’t do both.” What...

22.06.2024 3

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Ever say to yourself, ‘That’s a great idea!’

How often do you listen to a message that resonates with you, and you think, ‘That’s a great idea. I should do that!’ And then, it’s...

08.06.2024 10

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Power vs. Force: The Secret to easeful influence as a parent

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: One strategy to change the quality of your life

I must admit that my to-do list inevitably grows more extensive than the hours of my day. I see that a meaningful, active life perhaps pulls for that....

28.04.2024 10

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: You can’t get there from here

I once heard this phrase long ago, and it has stuck with me over the years. Many clients have asked me to clarify my meaning when I boldly pronounce:...

21.04.2024 10

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: How to guarantee your efforts fail

In my work with parents and individual adult coaching clients, I find most arrive at my office after trying various approaches to getting results....

14.04.2024 10

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: The Outside Game Part II: Discipline

We all understand the role of discipline in creating a successful journey through life. Yet, many parents struggle with teaching discipline to their...

06.04.2024 8

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Which game do we focus on?

When speaking to parents with challenging children, there is often an urgency to address the specifics of what to do when a problem behavior shows up....

24.03.2024 20

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Why good advice & counseling doesn’t work

Many families seeking change for their children arrive after trying many other routes to help their children. Whether it’s anxiety that just gets...

17.03.2024 10

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Study the roots or enjoy the fruits. You choose

Many years ago, I heard the saying: You have a choice: You can live life studying the roots…or enjoy the fruits. But you can’t do both.” Of...

10.03.2024 20

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terriffic Parenting: Weakness comes from persistently seeking ease

One of the hallmarks of an anxiety-filled life is that their priority is to relieve their sense of anxiety or avoid future moments with possible...

25.02.2024 20

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Unlocking growth: Understanding and overcoming trauma

Regardless of your life experiences, most of us have probably felt stuck in a rut at some point in our lives. It’s a sense of stagnation that seems...

11.02.2024 10

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Who Needs a Time-out?

21.01.2024 10

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: To be happier, we must embrace the unfamiliar

We are creatures of familiarity. We could simply say creatures of habit. Or, more technically, we are creatures with brains that become conditioned to...

07.01.2024 9

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: ‘Do’ constantly, then maybe ‘have’ & afterward I can ‘be’ happy & fulfilled in 2024?

As the New Year is upon us, many of us reflect upon our lives, our successes, our satisfaction, where we have been and likely where we are going. If...

31.12.2023 10

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Santa: It’s time to set expectations!

Okay, let’s face it. Most children get too much stuff these days when Santa arrives. Too strong, you think? Perhaps, but we can know one thing for...

17.12.2023 7

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Thriving & enjoyment: The role of best effort.

We often delight in seeing an A on a test or witnessing our children or team win a game. Expressions of admiration for our children’s looks or...

10.12.2023 20

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Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: Why consequences don’t work: It’s all about proximity

Some prospective clients seeking Neurofeedback to improve their child’s behavior report problems with their child’s inability to regulate...

03.12.2023 20

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