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The 7-Word Phrase That Can Destroy Any Relationship

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14.04.2024

The phrase "Don't worry; we will work it out" can be a double-edged sword in partnerships, whether it's a romantic relationship, a business collaboration, or a friendship. While it's often intended to reassure and provide hope in challenging times, its repeated use without meaningful action can erode trust and undermine the partnership.

Following are three examples of how "Don't worry; we will work it out" erodes trust and harms relationships.

David has some impulsive spending habits. As a charismatic car sales professional, he basks in glory during those times when he has strong sales numbers. When his sales figures dip, however, he gets quiet and says, "I don't want to talk about it" to his supportive girlfriend, Bridget.

David wants to move in with Bridget in a new luxury apartment. He pitches Bridget with: "Think how nice this place is and, by doing this together, all the money we'll save. And, by the way, babe, my sales figures are hot lately!"

Bridget then brings up concerns over monthly........

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