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So, you’ve had a baby. Everyone keeps asking how the baby’s sleeping, how the baby’s eating, how the baby’s everything. But how are you?

That part tends to get skipped. Between feeding schedules and diaper blowouts, it’s easy to forget you’re not just a walking burp cloth and milk machine. You’re still a whole human who deserves rest, joy, connection, and a little time to breathe.

Whether you’re a few weeks postpartum, well into the first year, or even 18 years postpartum, these 10 ideas will help you reconnect with yourself (no guilt required).

1. Make time for self-care, even if it’s just 15 minutes

Self-care doesn’t have to mean spa days and scented candles (but never say no to that if you have the chance). It also isn’t doing an everything shower or going to the grocery store alone, though there are studies on being present and finding peace during hectic times.

Self-care is about carving out time specifically for you, no matter how small, that makes you feel more like you. After all, we all know how important it is for mental health for moms to have a support system that helps them find time for themselves.

So, yes, that everything shower can be considered self-care as long as it’s intentional. So can journaling for five minutes, taking the time to put on your makeup, and even getting in the car by yourself to go to Starbucks for a........

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