How Saying “Please” to AI Changes the Way We Think About It
Small habits with AI can quietly shape how we perceive and trust it.
Relational language encourages us to treat AI as something more than a tool.
Perceived connection can reduce objectivity and increase reliance on AI responses.
AI generates convincing responses without awareness, intention, or emotional understanding.
I was definitely one of those people who said “Please” and “Thank you” to AI while interacting with it. On a recent podcast, I was asked if I use manners in case AI takes over the world. The question made me realize something: I'd stopped saying please and thank you to AI months ago, and not because I'd decided it won't take over.
I'd recognized that using manners was changing how I thought about........
