Who do you think said the following on TV this week: ‘I love being around gay men – seeing a group of men expressing themselves the way they do is beautiful’? The answer, perhaps unexpectedly, is Danny Dyer, whose admittedly convincing schtick as the world’s most Cockney bloke was applied to the question of contemporary masculinity in a new programme for Channel 4. The result was a deeply odd mix of the touching, the illuminating, the silly, the thought-provoking, the cheerfully comic, the pensive and the completely confusing.
At first, it looked as if the cheerfully comic would predominate. Danny Dyer: How to Be a Man opened with Danny showing us around his man cave and breezily announcing that ‘Channel 4 bunged me a few quid to travel the country talking to geezers’. Before long, though, he set his brow to troubled and wondered if all the current talk of ‘toxic masculinity’ means ‘there’s now a war on men’.
As unoriginal premises go, this is a pretty sturdy one
His investigations began near his ‘old gaff’ in east London where he met his brother Tony who, to their father’s disgust, had preferred dolls to football. (‘Never in a million years would I have had the balls to pick up a........