Dr. Randy Cale’s Terrific Parenting: The stunning discovery: Children actually need play
Here we are again, confronted by modern science confirming what wise parents, grandparents, teachers, and common sense have known for a long time: children need to play.
Not just tap, swipe, scroll, and consume. They need to run, climb, chase, fall, negotiate, lose, recover, imagine, argue a bit, laugh a lot, and occasionally discover that gravity remains undefeated.
A recent study on preschool children found that more adventurous play was associated with better mental health, including lower internalizing and externalizing symptoms and higher positive affect. The same study also noted that high educational screen time was associated with poorer mental health. Children with more active, uncertain play tended to look emotionally healthier, while more screen-based learning time was not quite the miracle many had hoped.
Why Adventurous Play Builds the Brain
Adventurous play does something screens cannot do. It engages the whole child. The body moves. The senses wake up. The brain predicts, adjusts, fails, recalculates, and tries again. A child climbing a tree, racing across a field, building a fort, or inventing a game with friends is solving problems in real time.
This is brain development in motion. When children play adventurously, they practice risk assessment: “Can I jump that far?” “Is this too high?” These small challenges........
