She Let Her 6-Year-Old Ride to the Park Alone. Georgia Called It Neglect. |
Nanny State
Lenore Skenazy | 1.16.2026 3:10 PM
With schools closed for Election Day 2025, Mallerie Shirley's 6-year-old son was riding his electric scooter to and from the local playground—about a third of a mile away—on the bike trail just outside their Atlanta house. On his way home, a woman in a car stopped him and, according to the boy, asked rapid-fire questions in an elevated voice: What's your name? How old are you? Where do you live?
Shirley is a software engineer and mom of two—but she also holds a master's in social work and was a caseworker for four years in Minnesota. She and her husband, Christopher, believe in childhood independence and had prepared their son for such an encounter. He did not tell the lady his name, age, or where he lived. He later told his parents he was afraid she would try to pull him into the car, so he sped home, but he believes she followed him.
Two days later, a caseworker from the Division of Family and Children Services (DFCS) showed up at their house. Shirley wasn't home, but the caseworker told her husband that a report had been made that their son was seen on his scooter unsupervised. She informed him that she would be going to both their son's and their 3-year-old daughter's schools to interview and photograph the children.
Shirley's husband asked if there was a problem with letting their son go to the playground by himself. The caseworker said he was too young to go alone until he was "about 13." When asked if that was the law, she said, "They will consider that inadequate supervision," adding that "he is extremely vulnerable at that age.…Anything could happen." Shirley's........