Millions of people search for love, surfing dating apps for that special romantic relationship. According to Statista, in 2023, a whopping 17% of the U.S. population used dating apps—nearly 60 million people. That’s a lot of swiping.

Suppose you’re lucky enough to find that special someone on the apps. After several dates, the relationship is still going strong. You’re on cloud nine. That’s right, you hit the jackpot.

If you want the relationship to last, it’s time to consider certain personality traits that make it nearly impossible to sustain intimacy. In other words, the apps may help you find someone, but your behavior determines the relationship's future.

So before bemoaning your fate or blaming the apps........

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