What Changes During Adolescence?

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Love can be expressed in different dimensions: physically, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually.

Spiritual love can be thought of as connecting all living beings with each other and God.

Teenagers often have difficulty separating the ideas of lust and romantic love.

Part of the most hopeful work I do as a counselor involves talking with young people about what love truly is, before the world has had the chance to teach them otherwise.

When I was 15 years old, I took a summertime writing class at our local community college. One of our first assignments was, “Write about your first love.” I looked at the instructions with some dismay, because I wasn’t sure how to follow them. Did the instructor want me to write about my relationship with my mother?

Teenage years are a time of learning and increased awareness about interests, abilities, and emotions, including about romantic love. As people develop at different rates, teen experiences relating to love are quite varied, from falling in love multiple times to gaining knowledge about relationships but with no experience involving romantic feelings.

What are the Different Aspects of Love?

In discussing love with my adolescent patients and their subconscious, they have observed that love can be expressed in different dimensions: physically (including erotic attraction), intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually. My patients have noted that the emotional feeling of love intensifies when both people love each other, as opposed to one person loving another without much love........

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