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Mentorship leaves an inheritance of values, connection, and belief carried forward by others.
Education and leadership are ultimately relational, grounded in humanity and connection.
Legacy lives through relationships, community, compassion, and the people we continue to shape.
On the 7th of May, my mentor, the academic titan in well-being and mattering, Dr. Isaac Prilleltensky, passed away.
Four days later, on the 11th of May, I walked across the stage to graduate with my doctorate.
It was also the day that Isaac's beloved wife, Dr. Ora Prilleltensky, died.
After graduation, I went directly to Isaac's Shiva ceremony, a Jewish mourning gathering centered on remembrance, community, and supporting the grieving family. The timing of it was a lot to process: celebration, grief, gratitude, and loss, all existing together in the same week. But what I remember most from that evening was the stories.
The ceremony was beautiful. What stood out most was how people spoke about Isaac: his humor, kindness, and ability to make people feel at ease. Laughter seemed to be part of how he built connection and community. His deep devotion to Ora was also ever-present in the stories shared, a love so central to who he was that it was impossible to speak about one without the other.
Listening, and having many conversations that evening, I realized that Isaac's work on mattering........