The honeymoon period is the early stage of a relationship when couples are full of passion for one another, longing for each other when apart, and enjoying joyful moments together. This intense passion often fades, except in cases where there is a rare kind of empathy for one another that keeps the spark alive. Modern advice often suggests improving attachment style, communication, or finding hobbies outside the relationship to reignite excitement. While helpful, these solutions don't address the deeper issue: Why does boredom creep in at all? The answer lies in consumption-driven identities.
Alex, the CEO of a fast-food chain, fell hard for Sarah, his assistant. Their chemistry was undeniable; every coffee she brought or brush of the arm sparked excitement. Work became a playground for romance. Yet, after a few years of marriage, monotony set in, and the spark faded. One morning, Sarah found divorce papers on the kitchen table. “I need to focus on myself,” Alex said. “I want to travel, try new things, maybe start a business.” Heartbroken, Sarah realized her love had been one-sided.
While Alex thought he had fallen in love, he had actually fallen into lust. The intensity of his infatuation led him to misinterpret it as love. Lust is a state driven by dopamine and novelty, characterized by the pursuit of pleasure and immediate gratification to satisfy personal needs. In contrast, love is a stable emotional connection marked by oxytocin-fueled bonding and joy in caring for another's well-being. Sarah loved........