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For Your Pet To Thrive, Listen to What They're Asking of You

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10.02.2026

Just about everyone wants their companion animals (aka pets) to have the best life possible. One way to help your pet thrive in your care is to listen carefully to what they're asking of you. Honor their needs by allowing them to consent to what you ask of them.1 It's also important to try to take their point of view and to learn about how they negotiate their cosmos. Of course, there are times when this isn't possible, but often compromise is possible and benefits you and the animal—a win-win for all. When I first learned of Dr. Jeff Feinman's new book Path to Pet Wellness: The Holistic Vet’s Guide to Thriving Pets and Empowered Pet Parents I couldn't wait to read it. And I'm glad I did.

The bond between humans and animals transcends mere companionship; it is a sacred covenant that enriches our lives immeasurably. In his book, Jeff invites us into this hallowed space where science meets spirit, where veterinary expertise blends with profound empathy, and where the true needs of our animal companions come into sharp focus. Here's what he had to say about his important contribution to human-animal relationships.

Marc Bekoff: Why did you write Path to Pet Wellness?

Jeff Feinman: I wrote Path to Pet Wellness as a love letter to animals, their guardians, and the hidden intelligence of healing. After decades of integrative veterinary practice, I realized our beloved companions weren’t always being truly seen. Too often, their challenges were treated as problems to be solved rather than messages to be understood. This path guides us to slow down, truly listen, and practice presence and patience; when we do, animals can guide us toward awakening. I also wanted........

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