Managing January Meltdowns

The morning Sam was to return to school after the holidays, it was his dad’s turn to wake him up. Surprised to find an empty bed, he played a hunch and checked the downstairs coat closet, a retreat for an occasionally overwhelmed Sam. Bingo.

Sam’s dad: “What’s up, Sam?”

Sam: “I don’t like school and I don’t want to go.”

Sam’s mom joined in: “Sam, you love school – your friends, your teacher…”

Sam: "No, I don’t.”

Parental pillow talk the night before had centered around what a wonderful, if busy, holiday the family had enjoyed, and how well the kids had done with all of the entertaining, visiting and celebrations. That said, Sam’s parents both felt it sometimes seemed a bit much, as his dad sang a line from Meredith Willson’s “It’s Beginning to Look a Lot like Christmas”: “And mom and dad........

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