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On paper, the idea sounds unusual, to say the least: 32 singles speed-date for 10 days in the hopes of finding their soulmate. There’s just one twist: They aren’t allowed to see each other’s faces.
And yet, this is the exact premise behind one of Netflix’s top-performing shows, "Love Is Blind."
While speed-dating itself has been around since the '90s, a potential looming engagement raises the stakes dramatically, which is perhaps what keeps audiences so hooked. But it also raises a thought-provoking question: How are these individuals able to fall in love so quickly?
As it turns out, various psychological explanations can help explain why—and how—these contestants become so willing to pop the question after just 240 hours of knowing each other.
The Role of Context and Societal Pressures
One could argue that luck is on the contestants’ side from the beginning. After all, they, theoretically, share common interests from the get-go: They’re not only all ready for marriage, but it’s likely that anyone going on such a show would possess similar traits like openness, adventurousness, and a tendency to place greater value on personality over........