Be So REAL: When Someone Thinks Differently Than You Do
Recognize that even if something someone shares is not real to you, it is real to them.
Enter the other person's world through their eyes.
Act like you always have.
I walked circles around the tables at lunch, had overenthusiastic and odd social mannerisms, and was suspected to be autistic before kindergarten (though not officially diagnosed until age 10 or 11).
I was lucky to have an uncle who told me quite a few times that you can do anything you put your mind to.
Being a literal kid, I remember asking, "Can I fly?" And he told me you can get on an airplane and fly. I took that to heart.
No matter what situation I've gotten into, if a problem has come up or a meaningful goal, I've found a way — no matter what anyone else had to say to me.
When I went through serious mental health symptoms and hospitalizations, I connected with a support group and WRAP class, meeting others who deal with these things to figure out how I could as well. When I was encouraged to apply for disability, I applied to college and took every opportunity from then on to encourage others living with mental health conditions to........
