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The so-called bro code encourages men to follow set rules when dealing with each other.

This can mean that disrespect towards other men is seen as more serious than disrespect toward women.

To achieve a healthy culture, harmful behaviour should be challenged, no matter who it's directed toward.

During the reunion of "Love Is Blind" Season 10, the show’s host, Nick Lachey, confronted contestant Chris Fusco for trying to move in on his friend Connor’s fiancée, violating what viewers quickly labelled the "bro code." Chris had formed a close friendship with fellow contestant Connor during the pod stage of the show, but after ending things with his own partner Jessica, Chris approached Connor’s fiancée, Bri, at a mixer and criticised Connor to her, suggesting that he, Chris, would be a better match for her and would treat Bri better.

At the reunion, Lachey described Chris’s behaviour as "brutal," questioning his character and admonishing his behaviour towards Connor. It was notable that the same level of anger was not directed at Chris for his multiple cruel comments about Jessica’s appearance, which was framed as more of an opportunity for Chris to grow and develop going forward.

Many viewers, particularly women, used this contrast to note a persistent pattern across reality TV shows. Men who insult, dismiss, or mistreat women rarely receive the same level of anger or moral condemnation as those........

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