"Roses are red; violets are blue. I'm only sending you this because society has conditioned me to."
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Valentine’s Day is associated with tremendous cultural pressure around romance for singles and couples alike.
For singles, there’s pressure to be in a relationship, have a date, or look desirable to a romantic partner. As a result, it’s common to experience feelings of loneliness, social isolation, sadness, anxiety, social pressure to celebrate, and even self-pity on and around Valentine’s Day. For example, a study by the online dating site Plenty of Fish (2020) involving 2,000 singles revealed that 51 percent of the sample felt pressure to be romantic, 43 percent to be in a relationship, 42 percent to go on a date, and 41 percent to act like the holiday is meaningful. Even........