In light of the recent assault and abuse allegations against rap mogul Sean Combs, we have an opportunity to reflect and teach our teens valuable lessons about trust, safety, and relationships. This troubling situation highlights crucial issues, especially for young people navigating the complexities of dating and meeting new people online or in person. It’s essential for parents to start conversations early about recognizing red flags and building healthy connections.

Trust is foundational in any relationship, starting from the very first swipe on a dating app or a chance meeting at school or a party. Without knowing someone well, we make judgments about whether they are trustworthy based on appearance and gestures. It’s important to teach our teens that trust is not only a feeling but something that should be earned over time.

Often, feelings of mistrust are felt in the gut before the mind catches up. These instinctive perceptions help us stay safe and grounded. Teens need to learn to listen to that inner voice, even when it is clouded by attention, praise, interest, or gifts. Many people now say that something felt off about Diddy well before these allegations surfaced, illustrating how gut feelings can serve as early warnings.

Before forming friendships or dating someone, teens can learn to recognize unhealthy traits that may indicate serious mental health issues. Personality........

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