Why Your Partner Stays But Won't Commit to You: 12 Fs |
So, you've been dating your boo for a while now, but there's one big boo boo. Your little lamb chop doesn't seem to want to commit to you any further, whether it's getting married or somehow advancing the relationship in a manner that you'd like. You may then be wondering, what the heck is f-ing up this situation?
One possibility is that your schmooopy rest-assured views you as the right fit, but is just not ready for marriage or some more commitment yet. Your partner may want to reach certain milestones first, such as some career goal, financial stability, or social status. If so, a frank and open conversation can help your partner articulate that plan and accompanying timeline. However, your favorite fruitcake could actually be not so sure about you, or even worse, be already sure that you are not the one, but continues to stay with you for one or more of the following 12 Fs:
Yes, fear of commitment could be keeping your partner from committing any further. At the same time, fear may be keeping your partner from flying the coop. This can be the fear of not finding someone better or the fear of being alone—meaning, congratulations, you are........