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How Pamela Harriman Became the Most Powerful Socialite in American Politics

She married a Churchill, charmed the men who ran the war and buried two husbands—then turned her Washington dinner table into the headquarters of the Democratic comeback.

Pamela Harriman looked like a normal person. If you saw her on the street, you might consider her modestly attractive, nicely dressed and well groomed. You would not be so cruel as her very uncharitable obituary, which claimed, “red-haired but with a tendency towards dumpiness, Pamela Harriman was far from being an overwhelming beauty.” Yet it is unlikely that you would spin around and declare that this was a bombshell, hardened by plastic surgery, lip filler, Ozempic and general torturous manipulation of the flesh into what we now think of as a sex object. 

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Yet almost every powerful man in the mid-20th century fell in love with Pamela Harriman.  

She was born Pamela Beryl Digby in Hampshire on March 20, 1920, the eldest child of 11th Baron Edward Digby. After an infancy spent in Australia, where she learned to talk by mimicking a parrot, she returned home to England at the age of three. Her parents were occupied with horticulture and hunting, and she was bored in a way that, she claimed, was only alleviated by the arrival of Americans. There was not an excess of study going on during these adolescent years. Pamela would later note, “I belonged to a generation in England where they didn’t think women needed to be educated.” 

The author Truman Capote—and again, to learn about Harriman is to read people just rattling off a shocking number of unkind sentiments—claimed, “She has no intellectual capacities at all. She’s some sort of marvelous primitive. I don’t think she’s ever read a book or even a newspaper except for a gossip column.” 

Still, she managed some time at a boarding school in Munich and the Sorbonne in Paris and then returned to London for her debut. In 1939, she married Randolph Churchill, the son of Winston Churchill, three weeks after meeting him. This came as something of a surprise to everyone, as Churchill was nine years older than her and, at the time, considered one of the most eligible bachelors in England. The actress Ann Margret would explain that Pamela was “very conniving, very manipulative.” 

Another friend would claim that Pamela’s approach was simpler: “She wore high heels and tossed her bottom around.” 

The author Nancy Mitford claimed Pamela as “a red-headed bouncing little thing, and a joke among her contemporaries.” Future........

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