Cultural messages, media, and societal expectations have long promoted the idea that a bigger penis equals greater attractiveness or power – what some call “big dick energy”.

This has led many of us to assume that people with larger penises are automatically skilled in bed. Research even suggests that in some sports environments, players with larger penises are idolised by teammates as symbols of masculinity, becoming a focal point for camaraderie and team bonding.

But when it comes to size, bigger doesn’t always mean better.

People with larger-than-average penises face their own intimacy challenges.

“Many of my clients with larger penises have shared a range of challenges, from personal discomfort to difficulties during penetrative sex with a partner,” Dr. Mindy DeSeta, Ph.D., a certified sexologist and sexuality educator at Hily Dating App, told HuffPost.

“Every act of intimacy carries an emotional impact, especially when a physical aspect, like their anatomy, might unintentionally cause their partner pain or discomfort. It’s crucial both partners approach these situations with empathy, open communication, and patience, as these experiences deeply affect each person’s feelings, pleasure, and sense of connection.”

If you’ve ever wondered how people with seven-inch-and-over penises navigate the bedroom, here’s what they bring up in sex therapy, according to their therapists.

The physical challenges of a larger penis

Penetration is an issue many clients raise, says DeSeta. “The average vaginal canal is only about two to four inches in length, so if the penis is much longer, it can bump against the cervix, which can be uncomfortable or even painful. Because of this, many sex positions simply don’t work well.”

Oral sex comes with its own set of challenges, such as choking or triggering the gag reflex, much more frequently than that experienced with average-sized penises.

“My clients have shared that........

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