My fiancee and I have been together for a year and recently got engaged on a trip to Paris. Before we got together, she was in a relationship with a guy for nine years – they met at college when they were 18 and lived together for a few years.

They’ve stayed in touch since breaking up and are in contact over phone, texts and social media – they get together sometimes, too, with a group of their friends.

I’ve mentioned to her that it feels weird for me that they’re so close, but she says they were together a long time and are basically best mates. She feels cutting him off would be too hard but that there’s nothing romantic between them and she’d never cross the line.

Maybe I’m making too much of it but while I believe she’s over him, I can’t help worrying that he’s not over her and that he wants more than........

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